That story is funny - I've learned the hard way that the shower cap rarely works unless we lay it down with a scarf or ponytail and scarf it and then we have "the dent".

The straight hair struggle is real - I have an ethnic hair crisis almost every month. lol

Well, your hair looks fabulous in your pic and as long as you're styling your hair for you - that's all that matters.

I'm still going to get my quarterly blowout - unapologetically but it's going to be for me and not a potential partner.

Thank you so much for reading and sharing your story.

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